my story
My previous life
For most of my life, I lived as the quintessential overachiever—driven by endless goals, people-pleasing, and the pursuit of perfection. My identity was deeply tied to my work ethic and achievements (tied to serving others as an educator), but beneath the surface, I felt an emptiness I couldn’t explain. Life became a grind, defined by exhaustion and an endless chase for the next milestone. After 17 years of mastery in a profession with limited opportunities for the growth I was seeking, even when I moved across the world to Korea, I felt trapped by my specialized experience and advancing age.
Then, everything changed. In one year, I faced the loss of my mother, the end of my marriage, and a cross-continental move back to the U.S. These seismic shifts shattered my carefully controlled world, forcing me to confront the question: Whose life am I really living?
embracing & evolving
The answers didn’t come easily. Grief and uncertainty brought me to a breaking point. For the first time, my inner strength and self-reliance weren’t enough. I had to let go of my lifelong patterns of control and lean into vulnerability. Therapy, coaching, and connecting with others became my anchors as I began to rebuild.
Through reflection and self-discovery, I realized I wasn’t meant to stay in my teaching career. I embraced the fear of change and trusted that something greater awaited me. Slowly, I shed the layers of expectations and discovered a version of myself I had never known—one grounded in self-compassion, purpose, and presence.
The other side
Today, I live a life aligned with my values and passions. I’ve transitioned into a career as a life and career coach, where I guide others through their own transformations. The challenges I once feared have become the foundation of my strength, teaching me that even the hardest experiences can lead to profound growth.
Now, I help women reconnect with their inner knowing and find peace and purpose in their own journeys. Because in the end, life’s challenges don’t break us—they shape us into the people we’re meant to be.
